All the spiritual leaders, saints have said again and again that ego is the real enemy of humans. It is the poison of life. It is the reason for all the fights and struggles. Even we all do agree with this but we fail to free ourselves from our ego because the ego is the driving force of life. Ego is what challenges us to do work. If there won't be an ego, we won't be able to do any work and this is what we think. Isn't it true? There is one more issue that is, we fail to see our ego. We notice other's ego but when it comes to ours either we name it as self-confidence or anger. How to cut the string which is not visible . And the third problem is that sometimes other's ego gives rise to our ego. Now the question is how to protect ourselves from ego. It feels difficult to leave this ego as it gives us happiness not only on our achievements but also in our failures that look at my efforts how hard I worked. Isn't it. Now, what exactly this feeling is that we cal...
In today's time we have numerous ways to connect to people all over the world. All those social medias to see their picture, to know their views, to know about their trips and the list goes on. But does it really help us to connect to them or give rise to anxiety. Isn't it irony that despite of having a lot of facebook friends and followers on instagram, actually we have no one to talk .The one with whom we can share how we feel about something. Even in our own house we feel lonely, all alone. Sometimes I fail to understand, is it because of generation gap or something else that I never seem to agree with my parents and may be because of that I don't feel comfortable to talk to them about certain things and then I feel the need to talk to someone of my age or one who will understand me (I am not saying that you should not talk to your parents believe me at the end of the day whatever may happens only your parents are going to stand beside you). I guess at some point we all feel the same way. Being a teenager it is not easy. You know, I always wanted someone in my life, a certain person upon whom I can relay completely. You know that best friend with whom u can do all the bitching about anything like anything without feeling being judged. But till now I have never found someone of that kind. And those whom I met, people with whom somehow I felt that kind of connection but at the end of the day they just used me for their own sake even when I practically worshipped them. May be that was where I was wrong that I trusted them so blindly. I gave them the remote control to control my emotions and let them use me however they want. I always wonder how it is so easy for some people to just break someone's heart so badly that they fail to ever trust again. You know that feeling when your world come crashing down right in front of your eyes and you just stand there watching, with that horrified expression and tears continuously pouring down your eyes. Your worst nightmare comes true. The only thing you were afraid of comes true . That moment you always pray you never saw. Suddenly, one day it is slapped right on your face by the only person you never imagined would do something to hurt you. Then you just blame yourselves if you have done something wrong, may be it was your fault but you fail to notice that your only fault was to give them the power to hurt you. It takes all your efforts to come through that phase and stand on your feet again, with that smile and hope in your eyes that something better is waiting for you. But once again your fate betrays you and again same thing happens and leaves you more vulnerable than before. Then we have these thoughts that it is to easy to say that everything is gonna be fine, stay strong something better is waiting for you. But how are you suppose to just forget about all that and start again especially when every time you trust someone and same shit happens. But isn't it what we call life. Believe me my dear friend, that five year from now when you will look back you will be glad that you managed to stay strong, you survived that phase of your life like a true warrior.
What all I have been through in my life I have came to this one conclusion that it is not wrong to trust someone or to love someone deeply. Because it is your choice to trust someone and their if they want to break it or keep it. It is not trust or love that breaks you but all those expectations that we have from others. Than why to have those expectations? I mean if we learn not to expect anything from anyone then how we are going to get hurt and how anyone is going to have that power to hurt you. The answer is No one. And about that one person to relay one why that person has to be someone else why can't that be our own self. It is never going to betray you or judge you. And why can't we became that one person for someone else who is going through the same problems as you. Wouldn't world would be a lot better place if we stop expecting from others and start working on ourselves. Doing things that we want to do, the things that we love. Enjoying our own company and isn't that what we call self love. Learn to love yourself. Be a better person for yourself not for others.
Hey readers, this is how I feel and I really hope it will help you to see your life in a different perspective. Do share your opinions and feel free to share anything you want to.
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